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Years ago a professor with whom I admired greatly handed me a folded note and walked off. I opened it and it had just two words...

Be Relentless

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Apr 15Liked by E. Jean Carroll

Power of the matriarchs

Because I come from Leah, my great grandmother who ran away from the police in the middle of the night coming to “arrest” her and her elderly husband to send them to concentration camp. She figured she had nothing to lose. She survived. And from her daughter Rosza, who was one of the toughest, smartest women I ever met- absolutely fearless. And from her daughter Lea, my mother, who learned how to fly a plane and skydive at age 50, because she’d always wanted to fly - who never said no to an invitation to celebrate- anything- and who found “it” all endlessly fascinating and wild.

Power of the matriarchs.

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Apr 15Liked by E. Jean Carroll

“Remember who you are.” It never fucking fails. Remember who you are, E. Jean. You kick ass and you take names. And you have a legion at your back.

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Apr 15Liked by E. Jean Carroll

If it's not a "hell, yes!" then it's a "No."

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Apr 15Liked by E. Jean Carroll

You are not the boss of me.

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Apr 15Liked by E. Jean Carroll

All shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.

I say it to myself when I'm ready to clobber someone. No clobbering has taken place. Yet.

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If you don't risk anything, you risk even more. -- Erica Jong

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Well, I mean to say “Om Mani Padme Hum”; but lately it comes out sounding more like, “what the fucking hell is this shit?”

The above paragraph is true. And it’s okay because I finally realized its profoundly spiritual to just be an authentic human being.

WhenI need help i have a chat with all the Angels and Saints, Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, magical and imaginary creatures, and the invisible beings who like to help, And stuff works out. Not always the way I want it to, but I’m still alive. I hear that’s a good thing.

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Apr 15Liked by E. Jean Carroll

Take a deep breath and remember who the fuck you are.

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Apr 15Liked by E. Jean Carroll

Fear is the mind killer

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In dire circumstances, “chuck it in the f*ck it bucket” works miracles.

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E Jean, my mantra energy is summoned with the words: shit, shit, shit or fuck, fuck, fuck. Cussing gives me energy! 😀

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Apr 15·edited Apr 15Liked by E. Jean Carroll

Not really mantras - but sayings that I like.

From my parents -- (both crafters) -- Measure twice, cut once.

From Yolanda Spearman (Voiceover Actor/Author) - The riches are in the niches ("b*tches"). I landed a great work at home gig proofing audio books due to a skill I learned auditing legal transcripts.

Spotted on Facebook - Don't you dare settle for fine (Roy Kent)

My favorite cross-stitch sampler - WARNING - This is proof I have the patience to stab something 1,000 times.

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Apr 15Liked by E. Jean Carroll

Do what you can, and can the rest.

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Apr 15·edited Apr 15Liked by E. Jean Carroll

I have all the conditions I need to be present and loving.

When do I say it - when I feel anxious, obsessing about something ... (so starting when I wake up and until I go to bed lol)

What powers do I gather with it ... A sense of empowerment that regardless of what's going on around me I can choose how I want to show up... and even if I feel I can't change something externally I can be loving toward myself.

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Apr 15Liked by E. Jean Carroll

I have shared my mantra with other struggling people and its powers were not diminished.

“Left foot, right foot, breathe.”

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