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Guess Who Killed Women's Libido

Guess Who Killed Women's Libido

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Once as Horny as a She-Goat,1 But Now? Nada Nada Nada

Tuesday’s Ask E. Jean Classic

DEAR E. JEAN:

HELP!! SOS!! I'm a healthy 29-year old and I haven't had the urge for months. I was never an "orgasm-every-time" kind of gal, but I was still pretty horny. Now I just go through the motions for my fiancé's sake—I never fake it; I'd feel like I was lying if I did. But he's starting to think my disinterest is his fault. I keep telling him it's not. (He's always sensitive to what makes me feel good; and I love making him feel good.) He's willing to take as much time as I need; but these days even that doesn't do it.

At first I just thought the problem was stress. My life is full of it! (But whose isn't?) We both work in television. We're under strain for long hours and the show has been rocky lately (my job might be on the line.) And it's not that my fiancé isn't attractive to me anymore. I think he's absolutely adorable—sexy, hot, and I still crave being intimate with him. I love him body and …

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